Breaking up may seem like the end of the world. At first, you are hurt and you walk around the house in your night clothes, singing sad love songs, then you go from hurt to being downright angry and want to get a revenge on your ex for breaking up with you. After, you finish with all that; you start to realize how much you miss your ex and want them back in your life again. The fact is that you do not know how to go about doing so. So get a pen and paper, and start to think of ways that you can employ to win your ex and their heart back. If you have made your list and still do not have any good idea on how to go about getting your ex back, do not panic; this article will give three ways that you can use to get your ex back and renew your relationship.
Take some time to figure out what caused the break up: For this step, take some time to figure out the root cause of why your relationship ended. Really think about the problems and make a list of the issues that plagued your relationship and just do not write the things that your partner did wrong. Be honest with yourself and admit the things you have done that contributed to the issues that you and your partner were facing.
If you come to the conclusion that you have made some mistakes, make a plan and apologize for the things you have done that may have hurt your ex's feelings. Saying "I'm sorry", could have healing power to get you on your way to getting your ex back. This takes courage and being able to set aside your pride and ego so you need to ask yourself this question, is your pride and ego more important than the love you have for your partner.
Treat yourself to a makeover: Getting yourself a new look is the best way to get the attention of your ex without being too obvious about it. It really does not need to be a drastic makeover. Just a little something that will make your ex turn their head. A new hair cut, some highlights, and some new clothes may be the exact thing you need to get your ex to give you a second glance.
Make your ex miss you: It is true that the way you look is important, but make your ex miss the little things you do. The way you laugh or the way you smile, whatever, it may be, make sure that your ex notices all the good parts of your personality. This will remind them of the reasons why they were attracted to you in the first place and the kind of person you are.