Do you know how to really play hard to get so that a man will find you irresistible? Can you make a man want you without you having to do much in return? Did you know that by playing the right way you can actually save some of your self-respect? You can play hard to get quite easily and by doing so the correct way, you can even save yourself some heartache in the future.
You might have heard that when you play hard to get you are being a tease or being manipulative. Actually, when you do it the right way you are saving some of your self-respect and creating interest around yourself. Think about it this way...If you are constantly putting yourself out there, flirting shamelessly and chasing after guys, you just look desperate and needy. However, if you hold some of yourself back, then are respecting your heart and your emotions. By revealing a little bit at a time you can get a guy to notice you and still retain some dignity.
Men like the chase, let's face it. They like to be the one pursuing the woman. They can't help it-they are simply built this way. You can take this knowledge and use it to your advantage. Let him chase after you. Not only will it make you feel desired, but it will give him the chance to feel as though he has "won" a great prize.
The important thing to know is when to pull back and when to give. The secret is in the delicate balance between too much and too little. If you give him all kinds of attention he might get bored with you. However, if you hold back too much he might lose interest because he might think that you don't like him.
The trick is to let him be the one to chase you. Let him call you, ask you out on a date, and try to woo you. In return, you give him lots of attention when he is around you, but then back off a little bit when he is not. Don't cancel plans with other people in order to be with him, don't call or text him all the time, and don't let him know what your wonderful feelings are toward him.
You also want to make sure that you don't give away too much information about yourself at first. Don't lie to him, but make him work at getting stuff out of you. He will feel as though he is the first guy to ever get to know you and that will make him feel good about himself.
If you can learn to play hard to get the right way then he will be eating out of your hand in no time at all.